Toxic friends are temporary, backstabbing is temporary, people disappointing you and letting you down is temporary BUT ‘forgiveness’ is permanent. Your whole life you’ll deal with people who are determined to let you down and there, of course, are such types too who will act like your selfless friends but will never hesitate to sell you for their own benefit. This, my friend, is life. People are bound to disappoint you, to hurt you, and disrespect you but that’s only to make you stronger and independent. One of the toughest tests is to be kind to those who’ve not been kind to you. Revenge is a waste of time. You get a temporary high. Then it’s over. So forgive, do good, show mercy, lift the one who pushed you down and move on. Can you imagine what the Almighty have in store for you? So smile my unknown friend. Life is going to astound you again and again.
Life is all about harsh realities. Adapt yourself and enjoy this short rollercoaster ride. You may never know when this ride ends or you’re replaced.
These are some common questions; how do I stop feeling pain? How do I stop crying? How do I stop getting attached to people? How do I stop caring? The answer is: You Don’t! Here is why: you can’t stop caring about the people you love. You just can’t un-love someone for mere the fear of losing them or getting attached. We care for the people even if it means pain and you can do nothing to change that . What you do is cry and let that pain out. You let those tears dry till there are none left. Because at the end of the day, we are Human Beings and that’s what we are supposed to do. We love, we laugh, we get hurt, we cry and then we bounce back. At the end we LIVE! To treat sadness and crying as a part of some problem or say depression is like asking someone to remove the deepest part of yourself and humanity. Life is not a problem to be solved but a process to be experienced.
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